You are not what happens to you. I encourage you to not let certain situations and circumstances, especially the "small" incidents, bring you down and reduce your true self.
To quote Maya Angelou again: "Deal with what you encounter. But you must not be reduced. And so a way not to be reduced is don't whine! :) Don't let the incidents which take place in life bring you low. Just say, that's life!"
I encourage you to not let circumstances, your environment, people, and small incidents reduce you in anyway and make you turn into something you're not. Take that control and that power back! I believe in your victory! :)
Today and always, be blessed. :)